Needless to say, a trip out of town means a respite stay for Muddear. In some respects, respite stays are so much easier than before although I still have that twinge of guilt every time I leave Muddear. Thank goodness Brookwood Retirement Community makes the transition easy. They know us now so scheduling, drop off and pick up are a breeze.
Muddear was so funny. When I arrived home from work, I reminded her that we would be leaving soon. After packing and loading Muddear into the car, we start to talk...
"Now where are you going?"
"Las Vegas."
"Sho'nuff?"
"Yep! I am really looking forward to the trip. I have never been to Vega before."
Upon arrival at Brookwood, I wait for Muddear to finish eating dinner - we stopped at Wendy's on the way. I kissed her on the head and told her I was leaving.
"Well, why are you leaving me here?"
"Remember, Mike and I are going out of town."
"I know, but I thought I was going too."
"Not this time, but don't worry - we won't be gone long."
"I'll be praying for you... take my prayers with you."
"I will and I'll be praying for you too."
That's the first time Muddear ever questioned whether she was traveling with us or not. I wasn't sure if she was serious or joking. Who really knows?